Say no to domestic violence

I sit in the bathtub feeling my bruised face, trying to convince myself it gets better. Will it??? I have to act okay, I have to pretend am okay because the society want you to fight for your marriage, the church wants you to be against divorce.. I may put on 2kg of makeup on…

Single vs dating

So what’s good about being single???? Memory loading…1%….100% actually nothing apart from some freedom which gets boring with those. Question two, what’s good about dating????Aarrrgh!!!! Love, attention and cuddles… Yummy, I love it….. Today I wanna compare about what happens to me when am single vs when am dating.. ****When am single** Dm and Social…

Waiting for him

So why are we always waiting for them to come back home???? So simple we are women and they know it. Arrrrrgh!!!!! What happens when we are waiting for them????I don’t understand what happens to me but something suddenly changes in me and I feel like there are different kinds of me taking over in…

#my life as a side chic (Part 5)

Yeah I was angrily running but where???? To hide guys….To cry myself out… I ran upstairs to the roof top…. I could feel the sob choking me up….I could feel my intestines knot… So after emersed crying, I gained courage to go face them…. I walked in confident until the last staircase when my courage…

#my life as a side chic(part 4)

An ordinary girl in love would have been mad…Yes i was mad but also guilty…. I had the perception I didn’t do the right thing…What I didn’t know would not have hurt me….instead of me getting mad, he got mad… He was so mad that you would have thought I am the one who cheated….And…

#my life as a side chic(part 3)

Wadau na wadauttes, this girl here really tried… She went to the gym, worked on herself, struggled not to post heartbreaking songs and quotes on social media… She didn’t want to look desperate but at the same time wanted to be out there…. I wanted to show him that I didn’t care but he used…

#my life as a side chic(part2)

I know what you guys are asking yourselves, if whether I left after the reply…. Yes I did but not for long…. He didn’t look for me, I looked for him… I felt like I acted immature…I thought maybe he wasn’t ready.. I thought maybe he would love me with time… I apologised for walking…

#My life as a side chic(part 1)

I was in a relationship, but I wasn’t in a relationship….The kind of a relationship you feel suffocated, the kind of a relationship you feel you don’t belong… I swore to break that relationship. Stay single build myself first and then think about dating later…But the devil was at work… I was walking down the…

Deadbeat baby daddies

Gone are the days when a woman was over dependent to a man. Gone are the days where a woman was restricted to become who she wanted to become… Gone are the days when single mothers were insulted and their children called bastards. We live in a generation which describes the term strong through a…

My view on the Otile and Vera’s drama

Hello guys, how many hate Mondays like I do??But anywei it’s never that serious.. Today marks the beginning of my gossip Monday. Damn!!I am so excited that I am literally dancing typing this..👯👯 So during the weekend, something kept us glued on Vera’s Instagram and her YouTube channel.. Kumbe it was never what it seemed…..